Episode Transcript
[00:00:00] Shalom and welcome back to New Jewish Dad. I'm Jacob Sager, father of five, and today we're talking about the importance of building a supportive community as you navigate the journey of fatherhood. While the bond between you, your partner and your child is paramount, having a strong network of support can make all the difference in feeling connected, supported and sane during this transformative time. The Jewish tradition has long emphasized the importance of community and childrearing. The Talmage states, all of Israel is responsible for one another. This principle highlights the collective responsibility we have in supporting and uplifting each other, particularly in the vulnerable and transformative stage of new parenthood. So how can you cultivate a supportive community as a new father? First, don't be afraid to reach out for help, whether it's to your own parents, siblings, friends or neighbors. Let people know what you need, whether it's just a meal, dropped off, an hour of babysitting, or just someone to reconnect.
[00:00:56] Second, get involved with your local Jewish community. Many synagogues and jccs offers new parents groups, Daddy and Me classes, and maybe even just like a playground to sit down and kind of relax and to schmooze with other people. These can be great ways to connect with other fathers going through the same experiences. Third, consider starting your own father's group or playgroup. Sometimes the best support comes from those who are in the trenches with you. Reach out to other dads you know or have met at local events and see if they'd be interested in getting together regularly to share experiences or support another. Or get back in a text thread with your two best buds from college who also have their own kids. Remember, building a supportive village isn't about having a perfect network or never struggling. It's about being willing to reach out to be vulnerable and to lean on others when you need it. And it's about being that support for others in return. This is Jacob Sager reminding you that you don't have to do this alone. Reach out, connect and build a supportive village that will help you thrive as a father. You're already crushing it. Until next time. Shalom.
