Episode Transcript
[00:00:01] Welcome to New jewish dad. I'm Jacob Sager, father of five. Today we're talking about the moment you find out you're going to be a father. It's a big deal, whether it's your first or your fifth. Let's look at Abraham's story from the Torah. He's 99 years old when he learns he's going to be a father. Think about that. He's lived a full Life, had all sorts of experience, is known all over the world for being who he is. But when he hears this News, its like his Life is just beginning. Everything takes on new depth and meaning, and the Story becomes a Story that we know and have told for generations. Once he becomes this FAther. This shows us that becoming a father isnt just adding a role. Its a profound new chapter that can reshape your entire Life Story. Becoming a Father changes things. It affects how you see yourself and your place in the jewish community. You might start thinking differently about jewish traditions. Which ones do you want to pass on? What might you do differently from your own upbringing? It's normal to feel overwhelmed. Jewish tradition encourages questions, so it's okay to have them. What kind of father do you want to be? How will you bring jewish values into your parenting? There are practical things to consider, too. Each child brings new challenges, even if you've been through it before.
[00:01:23] When I first found out I was going to be a father, I felt a mix of emotions. It was exciting and scary. And even by the fifth time, those feelings were still there. Each time, it made me think about my personal identity, where I was in my growth, how old I was, who I was when I was a child, and who it is that I really want to still become. So here are things that you can do this week. First, take some time to think about how you're feeling. Secondly, talk to your partner about what you're both hoping for and worried about. And thirdly, consider one jewish tradition that you will want to share with your child or bring into your family life. We often talk about the door, the door from generation to generation. As you become a father, you're part of this ongoing story. Think about what that means to you. This is Jacob Sager wishing you well on your journey into jewish fatherhood.
